When your ear is itchy, you use your finger to scratch it...and when you are done, tell me which is better than the other?...the finger or the ear?

Yes...like it or not, most of us gay Asian men (or GAM) are still very much seen as the desperate bottom guys. Not too many white guys (almost none) think of us as the dominant ones or tops. When they see us or meet us they kinda know that we are the bottom ones. Why? Do we have a sign on our forehead that says "Bottom"?

Interestingly, a white bottom friend of mine asked recently. "Is it becoz you Asian guys have soft smooth bodies, cute butts, speak softly and have smaller penises?"

And stupidly and very uncharacteristically, I replied, half-jokingly "Becoz you white, big hairy-ass people like big dicks up your loose holes and love to drill the smaller holes! That is also why white guys want Asian butts more than yours!"

Well...he blew up his top and said "You Asians are the ones who like big white dicks up your fucking butts and that is also why you Asians 'no rike' your own cocks".

I was speechless...